These days, people judge each other over the smallest things, especially on social media. It happens all the time. And even as Christians who know God’s Word, we can still catch ourselves having judgmental thoughts about what other people are doing. We might feel like we’re right because we know better—but just knowing the truth doesn’t mean we should say everything that comes to our mind. Yes, we should always go to God and share His truth, but we have to be careful in how we approach people and what we say to them.
In Matthew 7:1-3 (NLT) Jesus Christ said, “Do not judge others, and you will not be judged. 2 For you will be treated as you treat others. The standard you use in judging is the standard by which you will be judged. And why worry about a speck in your friend's eye when you have a log in your own?”
This verse is a reminder that we shouldn’t judge others with a standard that’s bigger than the one that we hold for ourselves. We make mistakes too, and we have areas we’re still working on as well. So it’s not fair to point fingers at someone else, and that’s not what Jesus wants. It’s like trying to measure someone else’s life with a ruler that doesn’t even fit our own life. God wants us to check our own hearts first before we comment on anyone else.
Think about it like this: imagine you’re at school and you see a classmate gossiping or saying mean stuff about people online. Instead of praying for them or talking to them nicely, you roll your eyes, make a comment, or tell others how “wrong” this person is for doing things like this. But maybe you’ve said hurtful things too, before you really knew God’s way. Judging them like that doesn’t help—they might feel embarrassed, alone, or even think that all Christians do is judge others. God wants us to show love first, not make someone feel worse about their mistakes.
Judging someone like that can even push them farther away from God instead of helping them. God calls us to do things in a different way. We can still care about what’s right and wrong, but we need to handle it with love and respect.
Sometimes the best thing we can do is just pray for that person, ask God to guide them, and let Him work in their heart. He knows what is best for them. Showing patience and kindness is powerful. It’s one of the ways people see God’s love through us.
God sees how we treat people, especially those who don’t know Him yet. He notices whether we respond to them with love or with judgment, and He wants us to choose the right way and respond with His love. When we see someone doing something wrong, we don’t need to talk down to them or make them feel small. Instead, we can choose to be kind and show respect. We can even help guide them in the right direction, but only if they want us to. And if that’s not possible, we can quietly pray for them. Being careful with our words and our thoughts is important—because how we treat others can either point them to God or push them away.
Scripture quotations marked (NLT) are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. All rights reserved.
“Before You Judge”, written foraheartforchristdevotions.blogspot.com by Kraiapril©2026. All rights reserved. All done to the glory of God through Jesus Christ our Lord!