“A troublemaker plants seeds of strife; gossip separates the best of friends.”
Proverbs 16:28 (NLT)
This verse is saying that gossip isn’t just small talk — it actually causes problems. It spreads hate and can break trust between friends. When we gossip, we’re not just talking about people; we’re hurting them and even hurting ourselves because we’re injuring our relationship with God.
So what exactly is gossip? Gossip is when we talk badly about someone, share rumors, or even make up stuff about them. And I know sometimes it can feel kind of exciting — like we’re in on something “juicy” — but the truth is, it can really hurt people. God’s Word reminds us that gossip only brings trouble. It spreads hate, breaks trust, and can even make us feel proud or better than someone else when we shouldn’t. It might seem harmless, but it’s actually dangerous for our hearts and for our friendships.
Proverbs 11:13 (NLT) says, “A gossip goes around telling secrets, but those who are trustworthy can keep a confidence.” This verse is saying that when we gossip, we’re showing people they can’t really trust us. But when we choose to keep someone’s secrets, we’re showing that our hearts are strong and trustworthy. Being someone people can count on feels good, and it honors God too. Trust isn’t just about keeping secrets — it’s about showing love and respect for others. And in turn, they give that same honor and respect back to us.
If you find yourself gossiping, pray about this, because it’s not good for you. Ask our Heavenly Father to help you stop. Gossip doesn’t please Him, and it can pull us into sin without us even realizing it. When we enjoy talking about other people in a negative way, it shows that our hearts aren’t in the right place. But God can help us change. If we ask Him to guide our words, He can help us say things that are kind instead of spreading rumors.
So to wrap it up, we should always try to stay away from gossip. Instead, we can ask God to help us keep our hearts kind and our words helpful. When we do that, we protect our friendships, stay out of trouble, and show God that we want to honor Him in how we talk about others.
Scripture quotations marked (NLT) are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. All rights reserved.
“Stay Away from Gossip”, written for aheartforchristdevotions.blogspot.com by Kraiapril©2025. All rights reserved. All done to the glory of God through Jesus Christ, our Lord!



